Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Yours lovingly..

If today were your last day on earth, would you be doing what you are doing right now?

- A question that Steve Jobs asked himself. When you put that question to me, my answer would be jus like Steve’s which is “No”.

Forget answering the question, I wouldn’t even think something like that, in the first place. If we go around thinking that each day may be our last day, then life would be hell. If at all, I get to know that today is my last day, I wouldn’t be doing anything, I wouldn’t feel like doing anything... (Though I wouldn’t be doing what I am doing right now, though there would be so much I would want to do, right now….)

A man can never be never-dying and that is an undying fact. Yeah..., we accept that there is no assurance for our life and at the max our life can only be insured. We make sure that the close ones do not get affected much by our loss, economically if not emotionally. Is that the least we can do?

No, some prodigious people go to an extent of making sure that their loved ones are not affected even emotionally. “If I am not there, she/he should still feel loved / taken care of” And to make that statement practical lots of things get done when one is still alive.

The other day, I was reading a review on P.S. I love you… It’s about a happily married couple. When a movie starts with that kinda storyline, you can always expect what happens next. Yeah, right… here the husband dies of brain tumor. The actual plot of the movie is that the husband makes sure that his wife gets a box full of letters after his death; Letters that direct her to perform some deeds that would help her have a better life.

Hmmmm...Didn’t I see this before? Kuch Kuch Hota hai is one such movie. The wife through her daughter’s efforts (the daughter receives letters of her dead mother, on every birthday) make sure that her hubby gets married to his friend…

It’s not just about movies. I also remember reading an article, in which the hubby, makes sure that his wife gets a rose every Friday even after his death. It’s just a rose, but think of how it would be to the wife, when he is no more.

What is driving all these people? It’s just one word… Love!!! Knowing that you are in your last days is itself painful….Knowing that you cannot be with the person you love is even more painful. But overcoming, all these emotions they have achieved what they desired to.

The answer to Steve's question would have been "yes" from these people.


"Though love cannot prevent death from happening, its just love that prevails... "

11 comments:

  1. nice study :-)

    i know i'm gonna sound incredibly selfish, conceited and narcissistic, but i've gotta say this.
    my answer would be 'yes' too!

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  2. hmmm i thought so, after reading ur post on "where do you see yourself ten years from now?"

    You are just happy and content with wat u have, that wat happens next doent bother u? somethin lik tht?

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  3. right!
    also because, i love myself a lot! ;-)
    that's what i meant by being narcissistic. so like you said, Love is driving me too!!

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  4. hmmm...wat to say.. good.. better...certainly not ur best.. still very good..

    LOVE prevails.. dats true :-)


    NOTE:
    Pls remove the word verification ..pLS

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  5. //I wouldn’t be doing anything, I wouldn’t feel like doing anything... (Though I wouldn’t be doing what I am doing right now, though there would be so much I would want to do, right now….)

    A man can never be never-dying and that is an undying fact. //

    ....confusing wordplay!
    unake over a therila??

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  6. 199 things u think of doing when u face it, Iam sure one wud not be doing that.... so no point thinking of that...

    Nivs you can hv better things to think of an do....

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  7. //we accept that there is no assurance for our life and at the max our life can only be insured
    punchu!

    my answer is yes de.. becos i ll ask this question often..

    sila scenes from films are really toughin

    //NOTE:
    Pls remove the word verification ..pLS// bala semaya sirichiten, nee idha nerla solirndha epdi irukumnu nenachu sirichiten..

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  8. @bala, done... finally i removed it...

    @mat, chumma try pannen.. confuse aanalum puriyudhu la

    @tamilzh, ennadhu? unnakum yes a... hmm expected

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  9. romba naal ku apram .. itha padikaren ..
    cool d.. your writing is much improved and though provoking..

    and the answer for the question is " yes" ..

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