Let me tell you about an incident and you will realize why i deny this statement " It s the gal's world" .I was talking to my friend yesterday. I was telling him that, i am planning to do something worthwhile for the future, something that will recognise me in my professional life. He just told me point blank, " Why try, anyway you will be occupied by marriage, kids in one or two years and then quit. You have wasted a guy's life. A girl at work earns only for herself. But a guy at work earns for his family. You girls do nothing in office except giggle, gossip and go to wash room every ten min for makeup or whatever". Look at the attitute, I was shocked when he said that. I do accept that we giggle, gossip and use wash room now and then, comeon, as though you guys never do.Moreover, when we are in our seats, we work and not day-dream (guys generally do- a scientific proof). And if a guy needs my job so badly to support his family why cant he just out-wit me and grab it when he was interviewed. Ok Ok, I am not going into that girl-guy-who-is-great concept now. I am just trying to point out the male chauvinism. Yes, its true that girls nowadays are equal to men, infact better than men, but unless the dominant guys vanish off, girls can never rule the world,why go for ruling???, they can not even live peacefully in the world.
But dont go and cry out "girls nowadays....." and " girls rule....." dialogues...., you heartless freaks!!!!!!!!
( P.S.I am not trying to offend those who respect us, they do have hearts :-) )
So intense! But guess you're still in the old part-of-freescale-but-sepearate-room days!
ReplyDeleteCome out of it baby! Do not be so much worked up over what the guy said!
You know...there are other things in life to worry about...than what a guy thinks! ;-)
hmmm dat was jus short of wat ppl call as an emotional "outburst" !
ReplyDeleteur friend was true..and sadly u too were..so an equally balanced arguement in the form of a blog !
if u ask me..don weaken ur stand by talkin more on this ;->
well said bala..
ReplyDeletehey nice work!
ReplyDeleteyeah.. things hav changed...tho ppl's attitude's gotto change here n der too..
ReplyDeleteFinally, someone confident enough to declare not only her equality with, but in fact, her superiority to, men!
ReplyDeleteNivi, you are absolutely right and I wish every woman in the world had this knowledge and this confidence.
For every stupid guy like the one you mentioned, there has to be another guy who knows the truth and knows enough to step out of your way and let you blaze on past.
Nivi u hv expressed well!
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